FBXL Social

Better is decentralized old school forums.
Like Lemmy or i-forget-the-other-one

Oh, right. There is one here:

https://lotide.fbxl.net/

That's the flagship instance, not the software. Interesting how people always get those two mixed-up.

Also, I think Reddit-style tree view comments are great.
{up,down}votes, not so much.