Realistically, fat chicks get boyfriends and husbands every single day. That OkCupid data from quite a few years back now shows that most women will end up getting a hit from at least some men, unlike most men who don't get a hit from almost any women.
But the thing is what other imperfections are there. For example, a lot of women who are like a six or a four think that they are entitled to a 9.5 from a man.
In a lot of ways that often happens with men, fat broke losers end up getting women all the time, the question becomes what else are they bringing you to the table to stay attractive or stay competitive? The answer isn't always immediately obvious either.
I might rent a Nissan Micra or a Fiat 500, but there's no way I'm going to buy one of them, it's a piece of crap thing to own. Similarly, I might rent a Ferrari or lamborghini, but I'm not going one of them either because I literally can't afford to pay that thing for more than a couple days. The Toyota Corolla and Honda Civic are the two best selling cars on the market for a reason.
Ironically, it might be a better indicator of exactly what's going on here that she is claiming to be a nice girl and saying that guys don't like nice girls on social media. Once you've passed the age of 16, that stops being a legitimate cry for help and starts being a more complex and potentially pathological signal.
One of the things I wrote about a lot in graysonian ethic is that the winning strategy is to be looking for someone who the rest of the market undervalues. Now this can either be because you value something that nobody else does, or it can be because you did more research and you found out about certain attributes that are attractive that aren't immediately apparent, but overall that's always a good way to win in the market -- everything from buying cars to buying stocks to determining who you want to marry, it's about finding something that is valuable that no one realizes is valuable yet.
But the thing is what other imperfections are there. For example, a lot of women who are like a six or a four think that they are entitled to a 9.5 from a man.
In a lot of ways that often happens with men, fat broke losers end up getting women all the time, the question becomes what else are they bringing you to the table to stay attractive or stay competitive? The answer isn't always immediately obvious either.
I might rent a Nissan Micra or a Fiat 500, but there's no way I'm going to buy one of them, it's a piece of crap thing to own. Similarly, I might rent a Ferrari or lamborghini, but I'm not going one of them either because I literally can't afford to pay that thing for more than a couple days. The Toyota Corolla and Honda Civic are the two best selling cars on the market for a reason.
Ironically, it might be a better indicator of exactly what's going on here that she is claiming to be a nice girl and saying that guys don't like nice girls on social media. Once you've passed the age of 16, that stops being a legitimate cry for help and starts being a more complex and potentially pathological signal.
One of the things I wrote about a lot in graysonian ethic is that the winning strategy is to be looking for someone who the rest of the market undervalues. Now this can either be because you value something that nobody else does, or it can be because you did more research and you found out about certain attributes that are attractive that aren't immediately apparent, but overall that's always a good way to win in the market -- everything from buying cars to buying stocks to determining who you want to marry, it's about finding something that is valuable that no one realizes is valuable yet.
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