https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XzB1v-CFpf0
The internet has made it impossible to mitigate in any traditional “away from daily life” way. Before, the biggest thing that kept most people from a crippling porn addiction was the need to physically go somewhere and pay for it or physically mail these shady fucks money.
moral and beneficial are not the same, and the former often inhibits the latter
if you stigmatise potentially dangerous activities you get people doing them secretly / cluelessly / shamefully / exploitably + a few people choosing to do so just to spite you
negative reinforcement methods can often be more expedient, but positive reinforcement is still better in most cases, as negative both drives subjects away from the trainer and has much decreased potency when the trainer isn't watching
-- dog and child trainer (and former child) me
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All women are economically coerced into the sex trade whether you want to admit it or not. It all comes down to whether or not men are okay with that, and the majority are considering most of them rape these women and get away with it. Most men don't care that a woman is only there for monetary reasons as long as they can get their nut on. That is the problem.
We do not see our society encouraging young men to sign up for onlyfans as soon as they turn 18 but society does that to young women.
@icedquinn@blob.cat @sun@shitposter.world @mischievoustomato@tsundere.love that's true, but there's also a strong connection between the military and prostitution in general. San Diego for example has a high frequency of prostitution related to the military presence there, similar to Hawaii. LGBT youth are also over represented in the sex trade so it can still happen to men, just not as often as it happens to women.
if the argument is about risk profiles, every job has one.
it always ultimately just comes back down to capitalism is crap.
>We do not see our society encouraging young men to sign up for onlyfans as soon as they turn 18 but society does that to young women.
I do not know in what society you live, but my society does not encourage women to whore out. And I live in a country that is very well known for its porn production. But that's maybe my willful ignorace of the world around me in general.
some people like to try and equate something being accessible with it being mandatory and i just ignore this entirely.
my father used to try that game where if a smoking bar gives hazard pay he'd say that's bad because "it forces everyone to work there instead" and it's like no, it doesn't, people are not obligated to take the highest monetary option on the table just because it exists.
it might be that nobody wants to work that job and they pay so much you feel compelled to put up with health complications from inhaling second hand smoke. but you weren't 'forced' to do it.
"i can't find economic opportunities that i like better" remains a problem even if you paternialistically ban random jobs to appease space wizards.
the reality is morality is made up and the points don't matter. its not born out of a concept of algebraic reasoning rooted in an attempt to find a degree of fairness. it's just some random shit people impose and basically never explain.
i think heinlein tried to make a point once that moral arguments should carry proofs or they aren't worth having, but nobody ever remembered that from starship troopers.
NOBODY WANTS TO SEE MEN
MEN ARE MADE TO SELL THEIR BODY IN MANUAL LABOR, UNDER THREAT OF STARVATION AND LIFE OF AN ANIMAL
YOU KNOW YOU'RE A DUMB PIECE OF MEAT AND YOUR BODY IS BREAKING DOWN DAY AFTER DAY AND SOMEDAY YOU'LL BE TOO OLD AND BROKEN DOWN TO WRENCH BOLTS ANYMORE, THEN YOU'LL DIE IN YOUR TRAILER PARK
PROSTITUTES ARE THE ONLY WOMEN WHO GET TO EXPERIENCE THE WRETCHED EXISTENCE OF BEING A LABORER, AND THEY'RE RIGHTLY LOATHED FOR IT BECAUSE IT SUCKS ASS AND DEGRADES YOU, LITERALLY MAKES YOU LESSER
ONLY THE OWNERSHIP OF CAPITAL, WORKING ONE'S OWN LAND OR BUSINESS, ALLOWS A WORKER TO PRESERVE ANY SENSE OF HUMAN DIGNITY
HENCE THE OLD AMERICAN DREAM OF A SOCIETY WHERE EVERY MAN IS IN SOME SMALL WAY A SELFHOLDER
BUT THAT GARAGE HAD SALED LONG AGO.
@sun@shitposter.world Internet gambling will I think really become a problem during the next recession. It's such a scam- since the implementations can pretty much do whatever they like and y'know-- you're probably funding someone really bad by partaking.
I suppose with prostitution you could argue, in contrast, that at least there are "handlers" to deal with / regulate / whatever. In contrast "online gambling" has all of its handlers, operators, algorithms and etc hidden from scrutiny, forever.
Teach people to come up w their own creations/products, solve their own problems, build whatever's possible themselves and mostly ppl wil partake in neither.
I think what's coming down the pike with millenials and gambling will be really really bad unless the hammer falls pretty soon.
FOR ONLY TEN BUCKS A MONTH YOU CAN SEE ALL THE PICS OF MY CHODE AND HAIRY ASS YOU'D LIKE, BABYCAKES"
NAH, SON
BIG TONY IS GOING TO A CONCRETE PLANT
HE'S GONNA DIE AT AGE 45 FROM LUNG SILICATION IF HE ISN'T ROLLED INTO THE CONCRETE MIXER