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Advocate for freedom and tolerance even if you say things I do not like

Adversary of Fediblock

Accept that I'll probably say something you don't like and I'll give you the same benefit, and maybe we can find some truth about the world.

Ah... Is the Alliteration clever or stupid? Don't answer that, I sort of know the answer already...

One thing about many conspiracy theories is that we find out that nothing really needs to be a hidden conspiracy anymore.

Its like they'll just come straight out and say "yeah we've actually been using contrails to spread mind control chemicals for like 60 years. What are you gonna do about it, bitch?" And apparently there's no negative consequences except for the journalist who first breaks the story who has to live in a bunker on the moon for the rest of his life to avoid stray sniper fire.

I'm seeking truth so I don't know if I'm right either. It's just a journey, but I like putting thoughts like this down so I have to articulate them fully and usually from there I can also start to research my assumptions.

Certain political philosophies claim that the West is a patriarchy, and when you compare the way that the West works to true patriarchies historically and in the present day, you can see that that's just not the case.

So let's start off with what a patriarchy would look like. Under a true patriarchy, the father, the head of the family, at the head of the entire family, would have immense political power over the entire family and would essentially be the dictator of their family. Ancient Rome was a patriarchy. The head of the household could straight up murder his wife, and it really wasn't a big deal. The head of the household controlled all the slaves, and was the one who made all the decisions about how resources were to be divvied out amongst family members.

This concept of a nuclear family relatively speaking derives from the UK and the US as well as commonwealth nations, but tends to exist in some form throughout Europe. In addition to pure structure, there's a question of inheritance. In the nuclear family, whoever gets the inheritance is essentially arbitrary. It might be the firstborn son, the favorite daughter, it might be everyone, it might be nobody. By contrast, in other societies the firstborn son inherits everything, the secondborn son might be allowed to stay and help, maybe the third, but generally there's nothing left for sons past that, and there was never anything for the daughters. Such rules of inheritance also cast long shadows on history and a country's economic distribution, as power can accumulate in firstborn sons, or it can disperse amongst many descendants.

It's something that seems alien when you look at media from other cultures, the level of power the father or the grandfather has over the family. In the west, if your father disagrees with your marriage it's unfortunate but largely meaningless. In much of the east, if your father disagrees with your marriage you may have your whole life stripped from you. As a westerner you look at that media and it just looks odd, like nothing similar to your own life.

By contrast, Western Civilization is not a patriarchy at all, it is a nuclear family. Instead of the head of the family having overwhelming power over the entire bloodline, each individual goes out into the world on their own to make their own fortune and find their own power. As a result, rather than the patriarch being the head of the family, the family as a unit is a thing unto itself. In some families the man may be dominant, but another family is the female might be dominant, and another family still there might be a very reasonable balance of power.

Now I'm not talking at all about whether men have many positions of power in society, because in the grand scheme of things I don't think that that's really patriarchy per se. Patriarchy is rule by patriarchs, rule by the male heads of families. Under such a system, there is no place for matriarchs in positions of power, and there's also no place for men who are not patriarchs.

Indeed, it is I think no mistake, no accident that feminism only came from Western civilization and to an extent doesn't exist in many other civilizations today. That family structure which is so different from patriarchy ends up being the impetus for women to gain equal political power and equal treatment under the law because governments often end up taking the form of the family.

There can be imbalances and imperfections in a system without that system being those imbalances and imperfections. I think that's one of the places where academia ends up really broken -- they see that problems exist and then attribute those problems to the entire foundation of the society when they don't realize they're a part of that society and that society they hate so much is the foundation that has them asking the questions. In western societies, the imbalances and imperfections (at least the ones that can be solved)

A society with universal suffrage is one that by definition isn't a patriarchy in government, either. It would be easy to give voting rights only to the heads of families -- imagine the mafia, where the male heads of each family get together to make decisions. Now *there's* a patriarchy.

I think it presents a major strategic blunder among feminists to constantly attack western society when it is the one society on earth that consistently sees women as equals. Once western culture collapses (and arguably it is in the process right now), if virtually any other region's culture takes over it's a near total certainty that feminism will be destroyed.

Some people advocate for the destruction of the family as a unit altogether, insisting that such a structure is oppressive towards women. There are places that exists today, but they're not good. Fact is, the data shows definitively that our lives are better with at least 2 parents who are with you throughout your entire childhood. If you consider the outcomes for women, women should practically speaking want men raised with fathers, because men who grow up without fathers make up a disproportionate number of violent criminals at an overwhelming rate, and also make up a disproportionate number of sexual offenders. Far from making life better for women, such a society would be markedly worse.

I think in part it's from living in a society that's so good that women don't realize how bad things could be. They don't realize in other societies how unsafe women are, how much like chattel they're treated, how little agency they have, and that it's not because they don't have feminism, it's baked right into those cultures in the same way that feminism is baked into the concept of a nuclear family where a man and a woman court each other and get married largely independently of their families.

This goes back to a core point: The right won't like it, the left won't like it, but western civilization is unique in how it is structured, and so if one wants to conserve western civlization then progressivism and social justice are in a sense baked in and you can't fully remove it without having something new that isn't western civilization anymore, and also western civilization is unique in how it is structured, and the only reason anything resembling "progress" is possible is because the fundamental ideas of the west are compatible with and in fact became the garden from which these ideas sprouted and grew, and any other civilization would not have (and did not) come up with these ideas and without western influence would not continue to accept them.

Something the left won't like, but the right will is that there's no guarantee that progress is social justice and what today is called progressivism. It's entirely possible that having gone further than anyone else, progress ends up being a more explicit acceptance of objective reality and a push to achieve balance between many different ideas that are all valid but don't exist in a vacuum, rather than a continued push towards only one or two ideas.

The meaning of life is to grow and become someone worthy of raising a child who will become much like you, and then help that child (or those children if you have many) achieve their potential so they can eventually become someone worthy of raising a child and start the cycle again.

I sorta feel like if you can be "gatekept" from a hobby where you don't need to ask permission to start, to engage, or to continue to engage, then you should be because you're clearly not in it for the right reasons.

"I wanted to participate in a hobby where I sit alone and do a thing I like intently for hours at a time, but someone in another state told me I couldn't so I'm thinking about quitting" Oh yah? That's terrible! You should quit immediately.

Ironically, KOTOR 2 basically was what the new trilogy desperately wanted to be, but unlike the new trilogy people really like KOTOR 2 (in spite of it only being half done) because it's made with love and ambition to make a great star wars thing.

The well-known texas loophole known as "He needed killin'"

Vigeland Sculpture Park in Oslo, Norway apparently.

If you want to fulfil a dream of beating women, not only is it acceptable, you'll be treated like an American hero!

They might make statues of you for your sacrifice!
statue of a naked man fighting off a horde of babies. AI didn't make this, it's a real statue.

"no you're supposed to pay overpriced crap remakes that include all the current things! You're not supposed to just port it yourself and enjoy it for years on end!!!!"

I mean... it already kinda was.... If anything it'll become a lower class resort than it was...

It's been a good year for open source gaming for me. Not only did I find out a bunch of new games had open source ports (ReVolt was an RC racer back in the day I just found out has an open source port! https://rvgl.org/ ) but my new handheld game consoles play a lot of open source games out of the box.

It's surprising how much opening the code can keep a game alive looong past its best before date.

Every time I see Doom 3 I think the same thing:

"But damn System Shock 2 is a good game. I should go play it."

I agree! (Or not, I don't know, I didn't expand the thread to check)

I'm thinking it's just invoking the imagery of a race car, a thing that goes really fast that you can still buy and use on a daily basis.

We were all thinking it.

I'm writing this on a 720p screen, and I think my default youtube resolution is 360p on mobile (and I just checked, I'm watching the latest metatron video on 360p too)

So yeah, I'm mostly blind. (I don't want to see that wops nasal hair anyway)

Saw this, now I'm dead. A dead hotdog.

"Really, I'm a feminist hero." XD

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