You can't actually win.
Because being quiet might be more socially acceptable, but it's also a weakness and you can really lose out if you don't know how to speak up.
One of the things I had to learn as an adult was how to speak so people would hear me and listen to me. That meant speaking from my diaphragm and being loud like an actor on stage because that's what people listen to.
Because being quiet might be more socially acceptable, but it's also a weakness and you can really lose out if you don't know how to speak up.
One of the things I had to learn as an adult was how to speak so people would hear me and listen to me. That meant speaking from my diaphragm and being loud like an actor on stage because that's what people listen to.
It's like how you're told exactly how to be a homogenous grey sludge as a person so you don't offend anyone, but something or someone nobody hates is also something or someone nobody loves either.
